Have Sex Before Date Night Begins

 Hi. 🙂

The topic of sex, relationships, and date nights has been on my mind lately, so I thought I’d write about it from my point of view. I hope you enjoy it, and may you gain insights and AHA’s.

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Ever had a wedding, graduation, event, or other date night event to which you and your man have been on the invite list?

You get dolled up, look great, get there, and have a fantastic time. The music’s good, the dancing is fun, the food is terrific, and everyone’s having a blast.

It’s time to go. You and your guy head to the car, and both get in, sinking into the soft leather front seats.

Your stomachs are full from food, and your bodies and minds feel tired from mingling, talking, and dancing. You both look at each other from across the seats, knowing sex would be incredible before the night is over, yet all you both want to do is pass out when you get home.

Who can relate to that scenario?

I, for one, and I’m sure many others, feel the same.

So, what’s the solution?

Have sex before date night begins.

Why?

Because when you and your man have sex before date night, it holds many benefits for the entire evening. 

–You’re both more smiley and flirty all night 

–You each have a sexy, naughty secret you just did before you got there 

–You’re more relaxed throughout the evening without the pressure of getting sex in when you get home 

–You have more energy if round two of sex does happen after date night

I think this applies to anyone in any relationship- especially a long-term relationship where establishing and maintaining intimacy and connection is paramount to success.

If you allow the day-to-day to take over, sex and intimacy become a thing that’s not a priority. One way to keep the homefire burning with your guy is to have a great sex session before any and possibly all date nights. 

It’ll keep things fresh and exciting for you both and give you something to look forward to and anticipate when date nights arrive.

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Thanks for reading; I’d love to hear from you by a comment.

-Shannon Marie